Marriage on a downturn after having a baby?

Did you kick the baby weight? If you didn't, you better get on it. Sex appeal is a huge factor in a happy marriage, and don't let anyone lie to you otherwise. If you did, then maybe you need to be more aggressive. Trust me, sex will fix your problems. Just give him space to enjoy doing things that he likes to do. You do things that you enjoy as well. It isn't JUST about your family. Each individual needs their own time and space as well. Understanding that, and touching him on the penis should fix your problems.